

biting the fart bubbles in the bathtub
In times of crisis, you’re liable to find out what you’re really made of. For all of history, unassuming folk have been surprised to find that they are made of pretty stern stuff.
That’s not to say we all come out of it looking heroic. In order to do that, we must be fortunate enough to realise that just because the world can be cruel, doesn’t mean we need be.
I guess I’m so many words my answer is that you will have to trust in yourself a little that you’ll know how to look after yourself. The real trick is going to be looking after the ones around you who make survival so much easier in the long run.
To equivocate, being a parent is by far the most difficult thing I’ve ever done, easily four times as hard as I expected. I have never been so ill used, overwhelmed, driven mad, exhausted, and neurotic in my life. And the only reason for all that stress is how much I want to do a good job. If I was stupid and didn’t give a shit about him, it would be pretty easy, as you say.
That said, actually worrying about doing well is a promising early sign in a prospective parent.
I have nothing to take away from that, I have one that’s six and this is basically my approach so far.
One thing I’ve learned to do is to demonstrate what to do when I don’t know something. If I don’t know a certain fact, I’ll go to Wikipedia on the spot and see if it’s there.
I’m also not perfect, but I’m a big fan of it and I support it with donations so yeah. Least I can do is provide an example that doesn’t involve an AI overview.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Proposed_United_States_acquisition_of_Greenland
Unfortunately, this particular move has a larger historical context. To be clear, I am not pleased to have learned of this. It belongs in the compost pile of history.