Since we had a post about the most friendliest countries, we should look at countries that have unexpected friendly people, not the usual answers like Ireland, Scotland, Canada, Taiwan, etc. For me it’s Montenegro. Londoners are considered to be cold and rude but I find them to be very pleasant with me.

    • Krudler
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      As a Canadian, I can declaratively say that our reputation for being polite is bogus. As a whole, we are a shitty, privileged, nasty group of people. Our country is built on colonialism and genocide, so you can only imagine what a shit pot this is.

      • @Professorozone@lemmy.world
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        Ah, don’t be so hard on yourself. I’ve only had great experiences traveling in Canada and I like to think of Canadians as our brothers. There’s good and bad everywhere. I might have had a miserable trip to New Zealand if I had left just an hour later. Who knows.

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          I don’t think I’m being hard on myself, I think I’m being hard on the general population of Canada. Most people here are just what I said, overprivileged shit pieces

          I feel like there’s a big difference between the surface level presentation that people see in Canadians, and then there’s the reality

          • @rbesfe@lemmy.ca
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            I think you need to go outside and explore this country more, if you think most people here are shitty. Sure our reputation is a bit of an exaggeration, but on the whole I still know that this country is majority good and kind people

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    Iran has been by far the most friendly and welcoming people. And I visited -a lot- of places.

    Also USA had very welcoming people, I must have been lucky by judging from people online, but in real world, my experience has always been very positive.

  • @iMastari@lemmy.world
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    Germany. Namely Northern Bavaria. They love it when you try to speak their language and suddenly you are their friend, they are speaking English to you, and they are buying you beer. Suffice it to say that I made a lot of friends there. An amazing experience.

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    Cambodia. Genuinely the nicest, and most helpful, people I have ever encountered all throughout the country. I was told about their general friendliness before, but was blown away by actually seeing it firsthand.

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    Netherlands. People there actually smile, it’s crazy

    And honestly the US. When I moved to Vancouver Island I started spending a lot of time on the Olympic peninsula and people in that region are ridiculously friendly. Port Angeles is like twice as friendly as Victoria it feels like

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      If avoiding conflict was a sport, a random person from Seattle would take home gold from the Olympics every four years.

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      My answer, too. I remember being uncertain how I’d be received as an American. I stopped in a random restaurant once to ask for quick directions. The lady didn’t just give me some “fuck off”/simplistic “go that way” answer, she walked from behind the counter, came around, took the map I was holding out of my hand, and spent SEVERAL minutes explaining to me in perfect English all kinds of helpful info.

      I loved that place.

  • @ultranaut@lemmy.world
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    Paris. I’ve always heard bad things about Parisians but they were cool. The only rude people I encountered were tourists.

    • Im planning to visit Paris soon in a few weeks so hearing this is really helpful! I don’t speak French well and have been trying to get better before the trip. But was worried I’d be treated rudely for it from all the stories I’ve heard. Glad to know they’re just stories

      • @ken_cleanairsystems@lemmy.sdf.org
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        Don’t worry! Say “Bonjour” when you go in a place and say “Merci” when appropriate, don’t be loud in general, and everything will be fine.

      • @ultranaut@lemmy.world
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        Yes, white American who is unable to speak French. Which reminds me, Parisians are a lot less white than in the movies. At least the places I went and the people I met.

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            I’m not sure, it was very diverse but the amount and type of diversity changes depending on where in the city you are and when it is. I went to a market where just about everyone was I believe from North African or Arab backgrounds, white folks were a minority. I also spent some time in a bar where we were some of the only white people. Most places though white folks were the majority. I’m sure there’s racism but the only bigotry I definitely noticed among Parisians was against the Roma.

  • @harryprayiv@infosec.pub
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    I’m wasn’t surprised but Mexico.

    I was in the waiting room at a dentists office in Ciudad Obregón. Every single person that came in was greeted with a warm hello by every single person in the waiting room.

  • @FiskFisk33@startrek.website
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    I went to rome once, and I found people to be super unfriendly. Like, giving me looks levels of unfriendly.

    After a few hours of this I realized the problem, I was wearing a Deicide t-shirt, and rome is christian as fuck. God I’m stupid.

    After a quick change people were really nice :D

  • @cecilkorik@lemmy.ca
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    China. The people are super nice, sweet, helpful, lovely people. It’s just their government I hate. I don’t know if they hate it too or not since they’re not free to say but I think they’re nice people and they deserve better.

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    For me it was Russia when I spent aroubd 9 days there (in and around Moscow). The people were genuinely friendly and there we not the scammers/tourist traps like in most of Europe and Asia.

    The markets were as interesting as any I’ve been to in Asia/North Africa.

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      Back when the world is simpler (because I was young and ignorant mostly) Moscow shocked me too. Had to study there for a few years and despite their gruff outward look they are some of the friendliest I’ve met at that time.

      Only exception is riding the metro/tram during rush hour. Those babushkas aren’t playing around and will tackle you down

      • BlueÆther
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        I must say its 20 odd years ago that we went, I’m sure the world was a simpler place

  • @Aliktren@lemmy.world
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    Germany, went just as brexit was happening, loved the place and people were so friendly, had a few long conversations with people on the bus/train. Also best breakfasts anywhere.

    • @grandel@lemmy.ml
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      212 days ago

      As a German, I can not relate. But I’m happy to hear about your positive experience!

      • @Aliktren@lemmy.world
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        No drama, maybe we were just lucky, i think we are way too much alike always happy to put our cultures down, also great, great grandfather was apparently german so maybe it was just like coming home !