The father of a Baraboo High School graduate blocked his daughter from shaking the hand of the Black superintendent as she graduated, video of the incident shows.

The school district, which has had repeated problems with racism and antisemitism, held its graduation Friday. The father was arrested and charged with disorderly conduct, Wisconsin News reported.

The father, who has been identified as 49-year-old Matt Eddy, jumped on stage, grabbed the superintendent and began dragging him to the back of the stage.

  • @kandoh@reddthat.com
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    1611 months ago

    From a scientific standpoint I’d love to know what was going through the racist dad’s head in that moment

    • @UnpluggedFridge@lemmy.world
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      2311 months ago

      From someone who grew up with a racist father, it was likely a juxtaposition of the handshake with stereotypes of hypersexuality and uncleanliness among black men mixed with sexist ideals of young women and their purity.

      • @calamity_joe@lemmy.world
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        211 months ago

        This is my opinion too. I dont have racist parents (anymore than anyone can be said to have some degree of inherent racism we try hard to be mindful of and eliminate as we become more aware), but I did grow up around a lot of racists. I was always surprised that people I knew, even ones who had black friends and were otherwise fine towards other races, would get really weird about a white woman and a black man having some sexual relationship.

        Then the guns came out and it was all kinds of horrific slurs towards the black man and the white woman both. I specifically remember the common understanding for these people was that a white woman was “ruined” beyond repair after being with a black man. Even when I was young, it just screams of an outrageous level of insecurity

    • nifty
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      411 months ago

      I mean, plenty of shitty racists in EU as well

  • SeaJ
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    3211 months ago

    Local station News 3 claimed that social media comments say that the father was angry at the way the district handled bullying issues related to his daughter.

    I don’t buy that. She seems surprised and embarrassed. And I would think you would have an issue with the principal rather than the superintendent.

    Also, whose social media comments? His? Random people?

    • @GroundedGator@lemmy.world
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      211 months ago

      Not saying it’s justified to bully anyone, but maybe the fruit has rotted with the tree.

      A more hopeful part of me believes that she’s been saddled with a toxic family and has suffered for it. And now she’ll be able to escape and be free.

      • SeaJ
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        911 months ago

        I tend to think the latter considering she at least had the social intelligence to just GTFO of there after putting her hand on her forehead in embarrassment.

  • @MidnightBanjo@lemmy.zip
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    29211 months ago

    I wish the Headline was more accurate.

    Reading the story, he wasn’t arrested for blocking a handshake, he started forcibly dragging the superintendent to the back of the stage

        • @Nurse_Robot@lemmy.world
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          3211 months ago

          I assume you’re speaking about how it’s absurd to assault the superintendent in this circumstance, but your wording is concerningly vague

        • @ReluctantMuskrat@lemmy.world
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          911 months ago

          If you did the same to a police officer you can be sure they’d charge you with assault, after taking you to the ground and pummeling you no doubt.

          • Jessica
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            -111 months ago

            Well yeah, but, they are above the law

        • @MidnightBanjo@lemmy.zip
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          211 months ago

          Oh agreed it’s still could be a crime, but the headline makes it sound like all he did was block a handshake, when really he did a lot more

      • @geekworking@lemmy.world
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        3511 months ago

        It’s more likely battery than assault. Battery is just putting hands on. Assault generally needs higher threat level and/or more violent actions.

        • ASeriesOfPoorChoices
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          111 months ago

          not “than”, but “and”.

          Assault is getting in the way.

          Battery is touching him.

          (though, as mentioned, laws vary by location, but generally speaking…)

        • FuglyDuck
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          assault and battery are both vaguely termed legal definitions that depend on what state you’re in.

          in MN, there’s no legal definition for battery, with assault being defined with multiple levels ranging from ‘mere’ threats through “poked me on the arm” to beating the shit out of someone.

          In WI, where this happened, it seems they’re the opposite with the only mention of ‘assault’ be related to sexual assault. and battery being similar to MN’s assault charges. Though, I only took a cursory look through their laws.

  • @barsquid@lemmy.world
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    7111 months ago

    That sounds like more of an assault than a disorderly conduct.

    I cannot imagine being so racist that I would leap on stage to stop a handshake. I also have to wonder at the misogyny, like does he think a handshake will defile his daughter? Must be dozens of delusional ideas just bouncing around in a racist’s head like DVD logos.

    • TurtleJoe
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      That sounds like more of an assault than a disorderly conduct.

      This is one of those situations where I like to imagine what would have happened if the guy did that to a cop. Likely a litany of charges, including assaulting an officer, and would have had the shit beaten out of him.

      • 𞋴𝛂𝛋𝛆
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        611 months ago

        And if the father was black and it was a white cop on stage, the father would be dead.

      • @Maggoty@lemmy.world
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        211 months ago

        They’d have shot him. They would have escalated the fight and then shot him if they were losing.

      • PirateJesus
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        211 months ago

        would have had the shit beaten out of him.

        It depends on how situation aware the cops are about all the cameras and witnesses. In an ideal case, they’d realize there are a lot of voting community members around them who made the time to attend a ceremony. Not a situation where people will just turn up the volume on their television sets.

  • 🔰Hurling⚜️Durling🔱
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    2811 months ago

    That poor kid, I trully feel for her since this day was a huge deal and her Racist dad just permanently stained it for her, on top of the embarrassment that girl had with her peers.

    • d00phy
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      511 months ago

      Yeah, looking at the other issues that have come out of this school district, it’s not terribly surprising what happened.

  • ChihuahuaOfDoom
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    4011 months ago

    What are the odds he has the word “blacked” in his PornHub search history?

    • @Vespair@lemm.ee
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      This whole “all the homophobes are closeted gay men|all the racists secretly fetishize black men” thing is reductive, unrealistic, and unproductive. This dude is gross as fuck and I’m glad he’s getting charged with something at least, but chocking these things up to underlying latent sexual urges is weird and doesn’t solve anything. I’m going to pivot to homosexuality as it think it’s a clearer example now: yes there have been a number of bigots who have turned out to be closeted gays in denial, but concluding from that that all bigots are closeted muddies the water and prevents us from tackling the real root causes of bigotry and, frankly, makes “our side” (for lack of a better term) seem unnecessary sexually-obsessed.

    • Todd Bonzalez
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      I didn’t want to be the first one to say it, but Conservative white men really are obsessed with being cucked by Black men. They seem simultaneously turned on by it, and ready to commit murder over it.